How to "Properly" Beat Your Wife in Islam

To the newly wed and wife beater here's the tip on how to properly beat your wife according to an expert. A religious leader has advice on proper wife beating which is designed to protect the wives from abuse and maltreatment! In short, beat her to death, but beat her by the book- the Holy Book, no broken bones and marks on the body. In that way the wives can still stand up with pride that their husbands beat them properly.

A rubber hose does not leave any mark on the body. So wives should insists on a rubber hose to be used, and nothing else, when you are being beaten by your husband.

Wife beating is a serious accusation (leveled against Islam).

Let us examine this matter bit by bit.

Allah honored wives by instating the punishment of beatings

Honored them with beatings? How is this possible?!

The Prophet Muhammad said: "Don't beat her in the face, and do not make her ugly."

See how she is honored.

If the husband beats his wife, he must not beat her in the face.

Even when he beats her, he must not curse her.

This is incredible! He beats her in order to discipline her.

In addition, there must not be more than ten beatings,
and he must not break her bones, injure her, break her teeth, or poke her in the eye.

There is a beating etiquette.

If he beats to discipline her, he must not raise his hand high.

He must beat her from chest level.

All these things honor the woman.

She is in need of discipline.

How should the husband discipline her? Through admonishment.

If she is not deterred, he should refuse to share the bed with her.

If she is not repentant, he should beat her, but there are rules to the beating.

It is forbidden to beat her in the face of make her ugly.

When you beat her, you must not curse her.

Islam forbids this.

With what should he beat her?With his bare hand? With a rod?

If he beats her, the beatings should not be hard,so that they do not leave a mark.

He can beat her with a short rod.

He must avoid beating her in the face or in the places in the head where it hurts.

The beatings should be on the body and should not come one right after the other.

These are all choices made during the process,

but beating are allowed only as a last resort.

The honoring of the wife in Islam is also evident in the fact that the punishment
of beating is permissible in one case only: when she refuses to sleep with him.

When she refuses to sleep with him?

Yes, because where else could the husband go?

He wants her, but she refuses.

He should begin with admonishment and threats...

Allow me to repeat this. A man cannot beat his wife...over food or drink.

Beatings are permitted only in this case, which the husband cannot do without.